STEP 1 - Believe in the existence of Hashem

STEP 2 - Know what Hashem is all about. He is Kol Yachol- He can do anything. He  is Avinu Shabashamayim and wants to help!

STEP 3 - Make sure your request is appropriate and meaningful. 

STEP 4 - Believe your request is "in the bag." If it is not answered, listen to messages Hashem could be trying to give to you.

STEP 5 - Make sure you are putting in your Hishtadlus