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How to get your prayers answered

How to get your prayers answered

 
Have you ever prayed at some point in your life? Most of us have. The question is- why? G-d doesn't need the nudging, or the ego stroke. He doesn't need us to remind Him of our difficulties. And since G-d already knows what's good for us, why doesn't He just give us what we need like any parent does?
 
Prayer is not for G-d; When we pray, we change, and are ready to receive G-d's gifts.
 
Here's how it works:
 
"Karov Hashem Lichol Korav- Lichol Asher Yikriuhu Biemes"- G-d is close to all who call upon Him- to all who call upon Him in truth (Tehillim 145)
 
5 STEPS TO GENUINE PRAYER
 
1. Feel G-d's presence. You are talking to a loving, all-powerful Being who wants to give you everything that's good. All over the world G-d is answering prayers because He loves His children.
 
2. Expect results. G-d has track record. If you don't really believe G-d can and will help you, you're not really praying.
 
3. Pay attention to what G-d is teaching you. Everything that happens is for your good. if you are in need, realize that G-d is teaching you something. If you trust Him, you will hear what He is telling you.
 
4. Get in touch with what you're really after. Know your bottom line. You're talking to the awesome Creator, so don't ask for nonsense. He wants you to grow up.
 
5. Being serious about what you're praying for means that you're doing everything you can to make it happen. G-d will lend a hand only when you put in the effort. He'll never take away your independence because that's His ultimate gift to you.
 
HELPFUL EXERCIES:
 
1. Learn from your successes. Remember a time when you prayer was answered. What made your prayer genuine and real?
 
2. Write down 100 blessings G-d has granted in your lifetime. Identify your top 10. Appreciate how much G-d loves you and has given you already. Share your list with a friend.
 
3. Think of a time when you felt G-d's guiding hand in your life. What was the message? How did it change you? What is the message that G-d is sensing you now?
 
4. Be aware of life's meaning and beauty. Spend some time every day searching for it.